Only the conditioned mental aspect of Self is convinced of "opposites." It is like being convinced that the sun rises in the East and sets in the West. The truth is, the Sun doesn't move. That falls under the category of "appearances." The truth is, the planet earth moves.
Perhaps as our Awareness expands, so does our "willingness" to include All. We begin to "open up" and see that more and more of our "conditioned belief systems" fall under the category of "appearances." We begin to suspect that white or black is white and black, that up or down, is up and down, that Reality is all inclusive, is And and Both.
It is like being an astronaut moving further and further out into space. The further back we go, the more is included in our view. With our space ship on the ground, the images appearing right before us may seem like opposites to the mind. Then as we go deeper and deeper into space, we see the City, the State, the United States, then the planet and then the moon. Then Hubble Space Craft takes over and the view gets bigger and bigger, includes more and more planets, more and more images.
We begin to see that all this talk about "opposites" seemed true from a very limited view. Somehow these eyes begin to see with something greater. The journey is back, back, and back and soon includes everything, with no opposites anywhere.
Can you get a feel for the freedom this new experience of And and Both holds? First try it with small things. Then begin to see the "appearances" clearly and know it from the vast view. "Even this and that" is included in the Love that we Are. This Love includes All, loves All and Is All. Keep going deeper and deeper while appearances drop away of their own from the "willingness" to see with new eyes and feel with a new heart and rest as What you are.
